Welcome back man,
It's true what you say about alcohol. I became acquainted with it in the military and it aided in turning me into a homeless alcoholic/cocaine cross addicted junkie for the better part of ten years. Cannabis and blockchain blogging aided in helping me get away from all that poison for good.
Your female plant is looking really good, your girlfriend did a great job of caring for your plants while you were away!
I like to name my plants sometimes too :D If she is giving off a great aroma, then maybe a name having to do with smell or something? 😄
You and military? I would never connected those two dots. How did you end up there?
Just to let you know that I like all kind of drugs, weed for me shouldn't be in that category. I really enjoy in different occasions using different drugs. And I can say for fact that all that made me a better person and more understandable to diversities.
Alcohol is only thing that makes jerk of me and he controls me and if I hate anything I hate when something controls me. I stopped using even small amounts of alcohol in my twenties and when I felt how drugs impact me without alcohol to suffocate them I never start drinking again. Not even a beer or wine. Only pure chemistry designed to make my brain opening new receptors continuously :D
This is my first plant that I want to give a name so please suggest some nice aromatic names ;)