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Hate means Intense dislike or Intense dislike for. Each and every person is different from each other in many perspectives. Some like one thing and others dislike it and vice-versa. This is what makes us different from others. If everybody liked one think then how would other things had come into existence. E.g A non-vegetarian would love to eat chicken, fish and others but a vegetarian doesnt even want to look at it.
Developing hatred for things is okay but developing hatred against a person is a whole different level. It is a psychological fact that we develop hate more easily than love against a person. There can be several reasons for that like :
- Desires > Person having name and fame, women, money, cars and rich lifestyle is going to be hated by people having the desires of it in their lives. They feel jealous of him/her.
- Beliefs > Beliefs is also one of the reason people see to develop hate against each other. E.g People like going to Church but some people like to go to Temple. So their beliefs are different and some of them start hating each other.
- Others Failure > Watching others fail give us pleasure isnt it? Then hate starts developing its roots.
- Want Everything > Every person brain functions in different manner like someone is more intelligent while someone is more creative, someone is genius while someone is social. Everybody want to have all these qualities but cant have all of them. E.g a genius but not social will tend to hate a person who is good socially because he/she wants to be social but they cant.
- Standards > Some people have set their standards to a very high level so seeing a person with lower standard than theirs, hate starts beginning.
- Conflicting Views > Sometimes, when views of people do not match. E.g Some like to go to party while others do not leads to rise hate between them.
- Trending Factors > One start hating other because everybody is hating him/her without knowing his/her actions.
- Racism > People start hating each other due to their colour, abilities and more.
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"Let Go of Hate"
Hate among people is what tearing us apart. It is very well said that we are the only reason of self destruction. We are in 20th century, everybody is born free. We must teach ourselves and others to show and express love. Our focus should be to explore the good thing that a person have instead of qualities that a person lacks. We must re-program our mind and consciousness to find the good in others and keeping our mind open to what is coming. Dont be jealous of others, appreciate what you have. Support others during their bad time and help them to recover their loss instead of having fun of their failure. We are the youngster, if we dont stop the racism then who would?
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If we see each other with open mind and kindness, then it would not only help in your growth or your social circle growth but also the growth of your city and country. There is a very good quote that is If you want to see improvement in others, improve yourself first!!. It will not only enhance the reputation of a country but also help to resolve conflicts between fellow countries.
"Go and Live your life with openness"
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Thnak you for reading @paulocouto
Excellent.
Thank you for reading @honeyscribe
It isn't always easy of course, but holding hate does nothing but hold yourself back. Sure, there might be "legit" reasons to hate somoene, but more often than not your hate won't affect the other person or persons in any way -- so might as well adopt an empowering belief instead of one that holds you back.
I'm working on holding on to less hate and it's been changing my life like crazy.
Good to hear that. Thank you for reading @aboundlessworld
Great initiative!
@kus-knee (The Old Dog)
Good work @funnyman - this is my mission. Negativity divides us, positivity unites us. In unison we are strong.
Everyone has something in common with their fellow person. Everyone.