I guess I am more of a Thumper... perhaps the result of having spent far too much of my life around people who seemed determined to go on "fault finding witchhunts," perhaps as a means to avoid their own insecurities. Perhaps you know the type: A person has 20 positive attributes and one negative... so they'll point out the one negative and pound it to death till everyone feels sad and miserable.
Thoughtful post-- thanks!
I know what you mean! That's a great perspective!