I know how difficult it can be because we are in the same boat, only difference is that my brother and are sickly and my parents are the ones taking care of us.
I know what it is like to be in the position you Dad is in. I hate feeling a burden to ANYBODY!
There are many good people out there who will be willing to give a helping hand. Every little bit counts! I will try and help you spread your post.
Be strong , keep your chin up. Upvoted and passed along.
Everything of the best to you guys.
I am so sorry your going through the health issues yourself...its so hard when something of that effect is out of your hands. You need anything I am here to also help....I try to be more the helper than the helped but sometimes we just have to admit to ourselves reaching out is needed and the only option left. Its a hard thing to do but I will say this its amazing the outreach this community will go to help one of its own. Thank you so much for the extra help...means the world to us here