Hi @chbartist Wonderful your post. I think that building bridges is in the magic of giving.
You be the judge as to whether or not taking the high road that leads to success.
It really doesn’t take much effort to show others that you care. For example, treat them with dignity and respect; “make someone’s day” with a few kind words; provide encouragement; show concern; spend quality time; listen with interest; share half; put their needs before your own; reach out to someone in need; share your wisdom and experience; pay them a compliment; teach them how to fish for a lifetime; thank someone for an effort well done; ask for or share an honest opinion; show gratitude; remember a special event; instill a strong set of values; provide encouragement.
Some people may look at you cross-eyed after you make a kind gesture. “C’mon,” they’ll think, “why are you really doing this? No one does something for nothing.” Then, when they realize there’s no catch, something magical will happen. You’ll be viewed in an entirely new light. Just think how far your kindness will go toward building trust, strengthening your relationships, developing teamwork and camaraderie, enhancing your reputation and sense of self-worth.
And It’s not that successful people are givers; it is that givers are successful people.
Once the bridges are built, always take the high road. It's steeper, but it gives you a distinct advantage. I've learned this from traveling too: whenever I took the easy path, the one through the valley or along the river, I never got to see the panoramic view. Relationships are built on compromise.
The most important things I've learned have to do with both paying attention to the people around me and also being ready to learn from them whenever possible. If you build bridges by seeking productive connections with others, take the high road and actively listen to the people around you. When you watch your partner’s back, your partner will watch yours. Compromise is key. If two people are five steps apart, the best way to meet in the middle is for each person to take three steps forward.
When you make people look good, you’ll earn their trust and respect, and they'll be supportive of your efforts. Plus, they'll want you on their team.
Have a wonderful, inspired night.
A hug