You got that right ! I am person who had congestive heart failure from June of 2003 to December 26 when I got the gift of a heart transplant . Before that I had been in and out of the hospital . Even with a implantable cardio defibrillator and medicine my heart was getting worse . It was pumping at only ten percent and getting worse . Basically I was dying but fighting all the way . You see I don't believe in that whining bull shit or excuses . My wife and I are instilling in our daughter sixteen who sometimes wants to act like she damn six years old . Life is real not a Walt Disney tale . Thank you for your post and dealing with reality .