Oasis for the Soul #2 - Step out of your comfort zone

in #life7 years ago

Have you ever been given an opportunity or felt you needed to change something in your life, but didn't take the opportunity because you became so comfortable in your current situation? Even though the opportunity that presented could significantly enrich your life, you chose not to take it because you focused on your fears and 'what ifs'.

When I graduated from university, i started applying for employment exclusively in my home city. And I only limitted my applications to a few companies I was most interested in. To my disappointment, my applications were all rejected except one. Like the other companies I applied for, this one offered employment in Melbourne, but unlike the other companies, this one also offered employment interstate. And when all my other applications were rejected, I received a call one day from this company offering me a job interstate.

This challenged me greatly because my heart was set on staying in my comfort zone. I had to choose between leaving my comfort zone or to continue unemployed. For some reason, I chose to turn down the offer and remain in my comfort zone. I hoped and prayed that the company would reconsider me for a position in Melbourne but this didn't eventuate and I lost the opportunity to work for this company.

After the disappointment of having all my job applications rejected and turning down the interstate opportunity, my heart started softening and I was finally ready to step out of my comfort zone. So I persevered with more job applications, and this time more applications with interstate companies. A year later when I was presented with my second job offer, this time I was ready to embrace the opportunity and move interstate. I can say that this was one of the best decisions I ever made. Moving interstate away from my comfort zone helped me grow as a person and enriched my life in ways I never imagined before.

So how about you? Do you need to step out of your comfort zone?

Is there some change you need to make in your life? Is there an opportunity that you've avoided because you were so comfortable in your current situation?

How about trying something different today. And do something that you always wanted to do but have been held back by your worries and fears. Embrace the opportunities before you and step out of your comfort zone today.

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Hi @nextgen622

Thanks for this lovely motivational post.
I'll make a few contribution.

Stepping out of our comfort zone removes complecancy from us. It will be difficult to achieve goals at a state of complecancy.

So, i support the notion that you said, we need to leave our comfort zone for us to get what we want.

Thanks for sharing

Yes very true. Thanks for your contribution.

Welcome back @nextgen622... Keep it coming my brother!!!

Thanks bro. :)

Wow this will inspire me a lot. Thank you so muc. I am a graduating mining engineering student. Yes, for me, we really need to explore for oppprtunities ahead!

Exactly. All the best with your choices going forward.

Yes @nextgen622 thank you. Looking forward to your future motivational posts :) it would be a great honor if you leave me a follow for us to get connected. :)

Move on go ahead

Most of the time, the things we fear were not really worth fearing in the first place. The fear is in change, or like you said, getting out of our comfort zone. Yes, I have missed opportunities because of this!

wow great post nice writting. i like this sir..............//////////

interesting post once again thanks for sharing your knowledge :)

without stepping out life is incomplete to experience the best we have to take the risk

As humans we always have this fear of the unknown. as you said.

'what ifs'.

there is always a if. we have to step out of our comfort zone if we are going to make an impact in life. There is three C's of life: Choices. Chances. Changes. You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change.

Gracias totalmente de acuerdo, pido sus oraciones. Gracias!