@suerisue Those who focus on others and how situations will affect them may put the welfare of others over their own needs. However, the problem with such people is that they often look for external approval too and unwittingly attach their self worth with the importance other people give them. And that is a problem, because one's self-esteem and value shouldn't be driven externally but internally.
Nice post and nice picture (an extremely attractive woman can be quite a distraction when reading).
All true !! But the opposite isn't ideal as well and it is hard to be such a balanced person. Thank you for taking your time to read and comment !! have a good one !!