Sounds like she has recognised and attempted to implement solutions (trying to translate for him) and he continues to not get it. Hopefully he's just clueless and trying and they figured it out or are at least getting somewhere but worst case scenario he doesn't want to understand in which case there's not a lot else she'd be able to do (see opening meme).
I have previously banged my head against this particular brick wall for maybe a decade or so and it is freaking exhausting. J and I did get there eventually (I say both of us because it took that long for him to accept that he needed to address the problems that he recognised but didn't personally consider problems therefore didn't think anyone else should either and after he adjusted I then had to adjust as I was still being triggered even though the triggers weren't really there anymore).
The similar-but-different battle with Youngest is ongoing and I am so freaking over it, I can see why she is "just giving up" because sometimes I really want to as well but love or something plus I can be unreasonably stubborn.
