@yallapapi Being called a pretender when you are being you is a very difficult situation. You may feel like hitting the person hard in the face! But just let them be with their idiotic mindsets and keep calm. I have myself been through this many a times and undergo it almost everyday.
What's the quote? "If nobody hates you, then nobody loves you either." I love my haters.
Richard P. Feynman
Bonus points for quoting Feynman.