"Real happiness is cheap enough, yet how dearly we pay for its counterfeit " hosea ballou

in #mindset5 years ago (edited)

As we all know there is no secret to being happy, you just have to make up your mind to be and you will be. But in case you need more than that here are some tips you can take to begin learning how to make yourself happy.

To be happy is relatively easy just to decide to be a happy person. The choice is simple really,

choose to be happy. Suffering is optional!

Once you make the choice to be happy your world will change to accommodate what it is you want and you will find being a happy person easier to do than you first thought! Abraham Lincoln once said, “Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

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Decide today that you are the best person to make you happy and find ways to do that.

Remember that no one can make you happy! Your happiness lies more in your hands than it does anyone else. Thinking he should, she should, they should make you happy puts your life in a shaky position because when “people” aren’t making you happy, you are miserable.

A great way to be happy. Laugh! Laughter has an amazing effect on the body, mind, and spirit, raising us up when we feel down. Just stop for a minute and remember a really funny incident. It doesn’t matter how long ago it happened, just recall it now and see what you saw, hear what you heard and feel what you were feeling. It should bring back the feeling inside of you of being happy. Now, whenever you down just recall that memory. ‘Laughter is the best medicine’.

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‘The only thing in life that will always remain the same is the change’, and in our life, we have the power to make the necessary changes if we want to. Even if we find ourselves in an unbearable situation we can always find solace in the knowledge that it too will change.


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Hi daison we already met on your intro blog and now I see this one , great you made it on the @pifc thanks to @simplymike , and with a great blog, it made me HAPPY, I see this platform suits you very well good luck and remember steem terminal....
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Hello @dsnlife 😉 I think you are ready to post another one on steemit after recharging your RC😊 couldn't agree more with you.. happiness lies in your heart and mine, your mind and your attitude. No need to seek it from anyone or even drugs.. but do you know the other secret of happiness is? Accept yourself and ve grateful for whatever you have and see everything through a positive perspective if you could.. if you couldn't .. at least you are alive and learn something about life too.

Found your post through @simplymike entry post in the pay it forward contest this week. I hope you will enjoy your time on steemit and I suggest you to follow the guide of those amazing people on steemitterminal too.. they're nice!

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Very well said @dsnlife. The choice is easy, it is a difficult process for quite a few people due to how their lives have unfolded until they make this decision. Our mind and thoughts are our best friends and our worst enemies. Learning how to control that balance is crucial.

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Interesting and inspirational. Thanks for sharing.

I found you because @simplymike featured you in the Pay it Forward Curation Contest. Keep up the good work!