人生最大的敵人就是自己

in #steempress8 months ago (edited)

人最大的對手,最大的敵人,我們都認為是別人。其實不是別人,正是我們自己。人生中的很多事情,總認為是別人跟自己過不去,其實是自己跟自己過不去,是自己的心在作祟。

人生裡充滿喜怒哀樂,酸甜苦辣種種滋味。不可能總是陽光明媚,晴空萬里;也會有陰霾,荊棘與沼澤,甚至是黑暗。難道沒有陽光,遇到挫折,遇到磨難,就開始懷疑人生嗎?可以,但只能允許我自己一小會兒。允許自己悲傷、抱怨,甚至憤怒。畢竟,我們是人,有情感。但這種時刻最重要的是自己的心,是發洩完自己不滿之後的理智與清醒!誰的人生不是一路跌倒,又一路爬起繼續前行?如果只為某件事情或者某個人就停滯不前,陷入悲傷痛苦中不能自拔,讓自己的心跨越不了這種障礙,那你的人生一定是糟糕的,黑暗的。因為,自己才是絆住自己的那塊石頭。而也唯有自己,才是那個讓自己又上馬揚鞭奮進的人。

人常說,要打敗別人,首先要打敗自己。是的,面對任何事情,只有戰勝自己,才能所向披靡。我們都不是完美的人,都有著各種各樣的缺點,各種各樣的侷限性。但這隻能說明自己的視野狹隘,見識短淺。是我們本身缺少內省反思的心裡,一直在阻止我們對自己的正確認識,阻礙著自我突破與提升。就像我們的身體裡面住著一個積極向上和一個消極的自己一樣。當積極戰勝消極時,你就是一個陽光燦爛的人;如果消極打敗積極,你就會陷入黑暗世界。所以,我們不要被消極佔上風。面對任何事情,要擺正心態,勇於面對,戰勝心中的負能量,這樣才能超越自我。

人最大的敵人是自己,往往是自己束縛住了自己,給自己畫地為牢,沒有信心去戰勝自己。但我們人在征途,不可能停滯不前。所以,無論遇到什麼樣的困難,唯有堅強,相信自己,告訴自己能行,給自己樹立堅強的信心,戰勝自我。因為,只有想開的人才處處有生機,想不開的人處處皆是煩惱。而人的心,就像一顆晶瑩剔透的明珠。只有不讓明珠蒙塵,每天勤加拂試,每天反觀自省,每天釋放擁擠的心靈空間,把陽光快樂裝進來,把憂傷痛苦倒出去,我們的心才會走出黑暗,我們的心才會走向光明。


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im not sure how well that translated , im also not sure if you should fight yourself ... it maybe better to get along with yourself instead :p

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150 votes but hard as hell to get an answer, right :p ... its not always you who is in your own way first, there are obstacles outside oneself that have nothing to do with the you versus you and no matter how positive you are

moving cars and trains ... or a meteor might strike and you can't smile at a bullet and hope it goes away lol

i think its best to take every situation separate because there's no such thing as one-solution that fits all

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