Throughout today, I have been trying to decide if I should buy a Jean or a beautiful gown I saw in a store for ₦1500 or not. I had different options for this money, I just couldn't decide which one to choose. The more I thought about it, the more my head said, I should wear the clothes I already have and let the money sit in my account longer.
At some point, I thought of getting a good outfit for church, so I would be able to honor an invitation on Sunday. I hadn't decided on anything yet when my friend called to complained about her damaged charger. She asked that I bring mine along so she could power her phone. I didn't hesitate. I hit the bathroom and in a few minutes, I was on the road.
I had a small change at home, therefore, I didn't have a lot of cash, I jokingly made her pay for my transport fare once I got down from the bike. And she did it with all amount of Joy. I was glad because I knew today, my body was putting me into a frugal mood.
In the end, it wasn't her phone that got charged. It was mine. I had no idea if we will have a power supply so I bought the idea when she brought it up. I got her keys, went to her apartment, and had my phone plugged into power.
While I walked to her workplace, I spotted two friends we made that afternoon in a book store. They beckoned on me to come around and I went in. The sight of books pleases me and I searched the counter for ones I hadn't read or planned to read. I couldn't find any. It seem as though I had finished all the books on the shelf.
Until, my eyes fell on this particular book, by Ellie Kay, and the title said, "Living Rich for Less". Every word resonated with me. I know I want to pull in wealth and currently I am consciously trying to live as frugal as possible. So, you should understand why the various verbs and adjectives used for the title of this book resonated with me.
What you should know is that it isn't the title alone that got my attention. It was the sub-title. Ellie Kay promised that I would be able to create the lifestyle that I want by doing three things; giving, saving, and spending smart.
Chill. The last two-part are something I am already doing. I try as much as I can to spend my money well(although it might not be smart enough). And yes, I am a bigger promoter of saving habits. Therefore, it's neither of these two characters that made me jump at the sight of this book. It was the first part...Giving.
I know I have written once about why giving out wealth is important after I read the book, Money, know more, make more, give more, by Rob Moore, and today justified the fact that I needed more information on how I can give more, and yes, do it better.
Nothing prepared my new friends nor the shopkeeper for my next move. I asked her if she accepted money transfers, she said yes. I excused them, went to my Friend's apartment, got my phone, and returned to the book store to get my copy.
Those guys were shocked. One of them asked, "why did you buy a book?" "Why didn't you ask for ice cream?" " Or anything else?". And then I answered, "that's because with the knowledge embedded in this book, I'll be able to afford more ice creams in the near future " and I meant it.
Now, you can see, I finally got around to spending that ₦1500 wisely, and I am optimistic that the dress I forfeited for this book, I'll have more because I'll be learning life skills or money skills if that's how you want to put it. Those skills will catapult me to the wealth I desire.
Pause. I sincerely didn't write this blog to tell you I spend my money on a book today instead of a dress. I wanted to share with you the things I learned in this book. Surely, I can't do that either because I have only been able to finish the first section. I still have two more sections to go.
I can't wait till Saturday, so I can share this book with the Hive Book Club if the topic we'll be discussing will resonate with this book. Until then.
For today, know that every other financial book that I have read often moves the giving part till the end. They always make it seem as though I have to wait until I amassed a lot of money before I can finally give back to my community and those in need. This book is different, it's already telling me that even though I am wrecking in the pool of debts, I can still give. And it's a wonderful feeling to know that a book is telling me to give when I would want to be taking (to pay off debts or fund my family's needs).
Kay is telling me I can still give a portion of my hard earned funds to other people while I managed the rest of the percentages for investment, paying off debts, and basic survival needs.
How the hell is that even possible? It's crazy. No worries, I am willing to follow through with everything, and I'll make good use of the lessons in this book.
Trust me once I finish every chapter, you'll be the first to learn the lessons embedded in the pages of this amazing book.
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Well done. I’m not much of a book person, i always abandon them 40-70% in 😂
In my opinion, while it’s nice to get a book because knowledge, do not put off doing nice things every now and then for yourself.
You know how i said i have stories floating in my head all the time? One is “how i am suffering in 2022 because i refused to spend on myself in 2020/2021”
Took the conscious decision that 2022 was about me and I’ve slept better, buying myself little things here and there.
Tag me in your summary. Merci
Hehehehe, I will stop putting off doing nice things for myself..... Soon... Lol.
I am happy you are already walking this journey of self-love. I envy you. Now, I have to learn from you... Lol.
Thanks for reading. I'll tag you, no doubt. Thanks again. ❤️
Hm, maybe I should try to join the book club discussion this sunday, I already joined the discord and saw it. The book could be very interesting for me
thank you for sharing this came over @dreemport :-)
Yes, you should join the discussion.
But I am unhappy to tell you I might not share this book anymore because yesterday, the topic of discussion was dropped on Discord and my book doesn't apply. 😔
But don't worry, I'll still share the book on my blog when I finish it. That I can promise you.
Most excellent post on the choices we make, to build the foundation before the rest of the building @iskafan!
This post was obtained through Dreemport.
Yes, to build the foundation before the building. Thanks for your support on this one, sir . ❤️
“Throughout today, I have been trying to decide if I should buy a Jean or a beautiful gown I saw in a store for ₦1500 or not” - classical example of opportunity cost . Funny how you didn’t choose any of them eventually..
Hehehehe, opportunity cost he said. Now, someone is putting my act differently and comparing it to economic. Where is my textbook... Lol. Thanks for reading dear.
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Giving is an amazing way to give back to the world. And it's a wonderful way to be happy too. I think everyone need to learn to give regardless of how much they have.
I am glad you know this and you are willing to share. Thanks for contributing.
Oh well well!
I'm not much of a book person as @moquero said in his comment but there's a difference because I love reading book that will bring about positivity and growth, financially and otherwise so please and please kindly share with us whatever you learnt and please don't omit any phrase lol... Thanks... Found through @dreemport
Haha, I will try not to omit anything, I'll share them word for word... Lol. Thanks for coming around. 💞
Would I have gotten the book? Hell no, would have most likely gotten a pdf version 😆 and the gown but then it shows my priorities.
Hahaha, please, don't make me laugh this morning 😂😂😂😂... Oh shit, I am laughing 🤣🤣🤣
I do not like reading Pdf copies of books that much. Maybe, if I did, I would have gotten a dress like you would.
I don't think it's a matter of priority in this kind of situation. Just as long as you love reading, it doesn't matter if it's hard or soft copies. Thanks for reading @khaleesii
😆 I don't like it either but I'll manage when I have to, where's the picture of the gown sef.
I think you made the right choice buying the book instead of the dress. Like you said, the knowledge you'll get will give you more Icecreams 😅 and many more dresses.
I have always known that it is good to practice giving. It is good to share, not only when it is much on you but also even the little you have. Congrats for having the book right now, I hope to read more from it from you in your posts. Haha
Oh wow, my lovely @adoore is supporting me. Thanks ma'am. 🙈🥰
Thanks too for sharing your thoughts on the giving spot. I hope you get to read it when I share the lessons too.
Hey, I hope you're doing great with creating posts on your blog daily? Or should I send you lollipop as a source of motivation and encouragement? 🙃🥺❤️
Hahaha, you have delayed the lolipop for so long. Bring it already. 😊😂
Of course I enjoyed reading the book from your post and I hope to follow along, however whenever I pass a book shop, I will look for it.
Have a lovely Saturday dearie
Haha, here, have some lollipop 🍭🍭, how many do you want? 🍡 🍡 Do you want more sweets? 🍬🍬
Enjoy and stay motivated @adoore-eu ❤️❤️🥰🥰
You too, have a lovely weekend too, thanks 😘😘
I appreciate them all. So much to lick here. Hahaha
Hehehehe.... You are welcome 💞💞
This is so interesting,I believe the book is going to yield a good result for you, you made the right choice of buying the book instead of the dress you planned for before . It is better to crave for more knowledge.
I was brought to this amazing post via @dreemport
Thanks for supporting my choice here darling. Now, I am confident I made the right decision. Thanks for coming around and for reading. ❤️
For me, I would say buying the book was a perfect way of spending that 1500. Like you rightly said, the knowledge you'd get from reading the book is enough to make more money and get whatever it is you want to get.
Thanks so much for sharing this.. I learnt alot from it..I just pray I have same zeal for reading as you do..
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I am happy you are on my side on this one. I believe I'll make more money from the knowledge too. Thanks for reading. ❤️
You know I'll always be on your side when it comes to things of this nature.. Can't wait for your review of the book.
Lol. Ok. Thanks. You'll see it soon. ❤️❤️
If it was me, to be deciding for you... I would pick the dress. 🤣 That is just me wanting you in a dress. Jeans are fine too.
Truth be told, in my experience, you don't need to wait "to give" but only give what you can and there is such a thing as giving to yourself.
Glad you're doing fine... I hope I can wake up early for book club 🤣
Hahaha, I'll be in a dress soon.... I promise. I'll pick a dress next time.
Yes, I agree we ought to give what we can, the blessings will be ours.
I hope you wake up early please, I'll see you there. ❤️
I am not sure what Christianity says about giving. However, I know it would have some good wisdom.
In Islam, there is an intense insistence on giving. It is like one who gives is a friend to God, and God has promised to increase the wealth 10 times of what we give. That's about religion and faith. But let me tell you something from my life, iska. There was a time when there was very little in my hand. I couldn't think of giving rather keep it safe. However, I gave a portion of it to a needy and then there were ways to earn more. Though I had a little, but my hands were never empty. I think I have been working on these three steps. They are worth following and giving is indeed important.
I am glad to reach this post via @dreemport, else I would have missed it
Christinaity encourages us to be givers more than receivers. And the scripture tells us that those who give will always receive more, it smis described in this manner, "pressed down, shaken together, shall men give to your Bossom"
Yes, the part where you gave even when you had little has been described in this book(I have Started reading it already) and Ellie Kay did mention there is no way we can lack if we are givers.
And here you are affirming her words. Now, I am learning from two different experiences, yours and hers.
Thanks alot for sharing your testimony with me ma'am. I appreciate you 💞💞
That's the truth.
Your post reminded me of several instances. I will write about them soon, may God willing
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I'll love to read them. I hope I'll get tagged 🥺. Thanks 😊
Sure dearie, why wouldn't I mention someone from who I got the inspiration 😊
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