LADIES OF HIVE COMMUNITY CONTEST #153
2️⃣ What is the most annoying mannerism or trait that a man or your partner (spouse, or boyfriend) has that you wish he could get rid of or change?
Dear Hive community members, I hope you're all well. Today, I want to discuss about the topic above of dealing with annoying traits in someone we care about. Following my last marriage, I spent time alone due to my fear of getting involved again. Unfortunately, my relationship with this man hasn't been successful.
Looking back, he's irritating traits caused me frustration. I question why I didn't see through his lies and avoid the pain I'm feeling now. One of his most annoying traits was his history of dishonesty. He lied about being single while involved with another woman, which I discovered later.
Whenever I confronted him, he became defensive and condemned me, creating a toxic atmosphere. He also lied about various topics, including his beliefs and his past story. It felt suffocating to be in this turbulent relationship.
He not only cheated but also engaged in secretive communication with other women. When presented with evidence, he became angry and shifted the blame onto me. After leaving me, he quickly started a new relationship with someone he had hidden.
His extreme reliance on pornography was another annoying trait. He blamed it on dissatisfaction with women. This addiction made it hard to trust him.
Changing these traits would take time and effort. While I'm glad to be free from this toxic relationship, the trauma has made it difficult to trust anyone. It's important to love yourself and recognize red flags in your partner.
If your partner exhibits these traits, change will take time. Be patient if you can endure it, but it's better to leave if you can't handle it. Seek happiness elsewhere.
That's so sad, the good thing is you are now free from his toxicity.
It is sad. I've never met such a horrible man and I'm relieved that it's over. I've come to my senses. A man who can be charming in his speech can be concealing his poison. So, @amiegeoffrey be careful who you just met, whether it be in person, online, or through social media.🤗
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BEER.I admire your strength and resolve @mell79. It's not easy to walk away from things like this but when the atmosphere is too toxic, my advice is run not walk.
Like you said love yourself more, don't wait for people to love you first, dot on yourself and do what makes you happy.
Your experience is quite sad but I am proud you're still standing in the end. Girl power
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Good he doesn't deserve you, I'd feel sorry for the other women who are unlikely to realize that they will be in a world of pain when he turns the table on them. His habit of consuming pornography distorts his image of women in such a way that no woman will ever satisfy him.
I don't care what the other women will experience with him since all I can think about is the freedom I had before he arrived and the moment after he set me free.
I now understand how crucial it is to take care of our own mental health. I recall he even admitted to me that he was in a depressive condition when we first met. It seems that I met him at a bad time and that he is using me as collateral.
OMG! 😱 his porn addiction! I'm still at a loss for words. I simply let him know that he could watch it next to me but actually it's an insult to the type of man he is.
I'm just glad it's all over now. All I need to do is just believe that whatever happens is God's greatest plan for me. Have a wonderful day, @kerrislravenhill and thank you for your time. 🤗🙏
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I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. This guy will never be someone anyone can trust because he can't be honest with himself.
Take care and know in time, if you are to be in a relationship, it will happen. Most folks find their special someone when they stop looking.🤗💜
I know that, compared to others, my experiences may not seem as severe, but I appreciate your acknowledgement that they were challenging for me.
It was particularly difficult because I was not mentally prepared for the situation, and my ex-partner left during a critical time for me.
As a result, I still feel traumatised by men and currently have no intentions of seeking another relationship.
Instead, I prefer to keep myself occupied with work and my business and prioritise focusing on my children.
No need to worry, dear @elizabethbit; everything is now in the past and all that is left are the unpleasant memories that I wish I could erase. Have a great day and take care as well.🥰🤗
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Hi @mell79
There are things we cannot change about others. Experience has shown me that each person changes, because they decide so. Thank God and life that you didn't waste more time with your ex, because obviously, he couldn't give what he didn't have: Love. By lying, people show that they don't love themselves, and then, how can they love others?
Just take the beauty of that relationship, and also what you have learned from your time with him.
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Hello @sirenahippie
Thank you for your thoughtful message. You're absolutely right that there are certain aspects of others that we cannot change. People have the power to change, but only if they choose to do so. It's important to recognize that we can't force someone to love us or possess qualities they don't naturally have.
I'm glad he left and I didn't have to spend more time in a relationship that lacked affection. It is true that someone who lies or deceives others frequently has a hard time loving themselves. When we don't love ourselves, it's hard to love others deeply. Knowing this makes it easier for me to have empathy for my ex as well as for myself.
And again, I want to thank you for your kind words. They serve as a reminder for me to enjoy the journey, embrace growth in oneself, and keep an empathetic spirit. You have my sincere regards.
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I'm sorry to hear, it must have been really tough for you. But the good thing is that you are now out of the toxic relationship. And I agree with you, we must take good care of our well-being.
Thank you for sharing your experience. !HUGS
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