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RE: It's been 6 months since I left my home due to the war in Ukraine...

in Team Ukraine2 years ago

Hey Priy, it's been a long time, me interacting here with you. Being active here period. The reason is that I feel the same tiredness as you. As many people.
Everyone who comes in touch with war, destruction, death, terror is going to be changed forever. When you see the other side of humanity it is hard to go back to a carefree life. One can't ignore the scars that are left behind, physically and emotionally. We can only learn acceptance of it, that's when we can find a way out of it. Scars can be covered, but at certain times they start to hurt again, sometimes they crack open. The better we can accept it the better we can learn to deal with it. That's when life may look brighter again.
But the world is in turmoil period. That's what makes a positive outlook for our future rather hard.
But know that you are not alone, even though I can exactly understand what you are talking about. Big hugz to the both of you 🤗.

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Ya I guess I am having a hard time dealing with the term "Acceptance", it's quite tough and I feel like my scar is still new and fresh. The devastating moment I have experienced in life probably will stay forever. Maybe it will be a story that I will tell to my kids and grandkids.

My biggest concern is my future, I don't know what to do, how to start from scratch, and what can be done to achieve and restart my life. It is scary, everything is still confusing to me. I am doing a job but trust me every day I think about my career, my focus, and my aim.

I am so glad to see you on the chain, I know what you have been going through and you came and read my post is an honor for me. Thank you so much for all of your help and support, Gigi loves your gifts a lot... She often plays with them...

I have no idea about my future either. Who knows what will happen the next months in Europe, in Ukraine. Life in Germany becomes tougher each day and to be honest, I think our country is pretty screwed. In all these circumstances all my "maybe goals" vanished and like a lot of ppl here I focus on making ends meet. Life is day by day. My future is tomorrow. There are many out there like us.

I know it sucks Priy, the waiting, the feeling of being stuck, of not being able to change the situation the way you would like too.

I am so glad to see you on the chain,

Ahhh the chain, it's a bit ambivalent lol. But at least the energy to sneak around again silently came back 😂.

Btw, I read most of your posts aaaand I'm happy Gigi likes her toys 😊.