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RE: Weekend-engagement topic week 33: Best or worst

in Weekend Experiences3 years ago

What a cool one of your best days. Like you many of my own revolve around Faith, we've been together for 33 years years so it's probably not surprising.

So yes, that advice was sound and probably something I'd say now to a lad in the same situation. Chasing tail is one thing, but being alone, not having that other person to stand beside you? Hmm, a lonely old life I'd say. I love having a significant other and growing together, changing as people and a couple and becoming something new as we go. It's cool.

Sure, some single people say how great it is and some attached people probably hate it...I say fine. Accept it or change it based on one's personal needs and requirements...For me...Well, I've got 33 years of history to draw on to prove how amazing a partnership like mine can be.

So, great thing man, good work and kudos to Siena for keeping your stupid ass around prior to and during your transition. Lol.

Thanks for coming by, opening up with this personal stuff and for sharing with hive. Nice work fella.

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Hahah yeah I'm really lucky she kept me around! I was one step away from the garbage can is what she told me a few years later. Cut that one close!

I would rather have a relationship like we do and have the moments instead of being one of those people who just goes onto the next fling their whole life and then wishing when they got older they settled down. There will always be an argument both ways but to me, the path I took is much more wholesome and suiting for me. I was no good at being the bro but I had to try it to realize I didn't like it.

Thanks for the prod of the memory banks. These are great ways to look back even when we are so busy in the moment. I think reflection is important to get a stabilizing sense.