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Desde que empezamos a tener uso de razón, comienzan los secretos en nuestras vidas, secretos nuestros, o secretos de otras personas, ¿Quién no ha tenido un secreto personal o ha guardado un secreto de terceras personas?, pienso que los secretos son muy comunes, desde niños aprendemos a tener secretos, a escucharlos y a llevarlos con nosotros.
Pienso que los secretos forman parte de la vida, no creo que exista una persona que no tenga secretos, normalmente los secretos empiezan a aparecer en nuestras vidas cuando hacemos algo que creemos está mal, o nos da vergüenza que lo sepan, o es una situación muy íntima y definitivamente no queremos que nadie lo sepa, desde mi punto de vista es una manera de proteger nuestra intimidad.
No creo que los secretos sean malos en su totalidad, la cuestión está en ¿Qué tipo de secretos escondemos? O ¿Qué tipo de secretos nos han confesado?, he leído acerca de personas que guardan secretos que ellos mismos consideran nocivos para su salud mental, y hay otras personas que cuentan que haber mantenido en secreto algunos aspectos de su vida privada les ha salvado la vida, pienso que en el momento en el que un secreto que guardes, bien sea personal o de otras personas, empieza a molestar en tu mente, debemos buscar ayuda, debemos hablar al respecto, lo mejor sería con un profesional, o si tenemos a alguien en quien confiamos podríamos tocar el tema con esa persona.
Soy de las personas que cuenta con los dedos de la mano a sus verdaderos amigos, es más, creo que los que tengo son mucho menos que los dedos de mis manos, son amigos, hermanos o hermanas que la vida te regala, con ellos he compartido mis secretos, y ellos han compartido conmigo los suyos, y definitivamente cuando hablas o dejas salir ese secreto que te inquieta o atormenta, experimentas una sensación de libertad, es muy sanador hablar de cosas que has tenido guardadassiempre estará bien desahogarse, y siempre estará bien tener secretos.
El mundo está lleno de secretos, solo debemos buscar el equilibrio de todo, no tenemos por qué ser un libro abierto y tampoco tenemos porque cargar con tantos secretos y más si tenemos a personas en quienes realmente podemos confiar, aprendamos a vivir con lo que podamos llevar.
Mis mejores deseos para todos en este nuevo año que comienza, bendiciones siempre.
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Since we began to have the use of reason, secrets begin in our lives, our secrets, or other people's secrets.Who has not had a personal secret or has kept a third-party secret? I think secrets are very common, as children we learn to have secrets, to listen to them and to carry them with us.
I think that secrets are part of life, I do not believe that there is a person who does not have secrets, normally secrets begin to appear in our lives when we do something that we believe is wrong, or we are ashamed that they know it, or it is a Very intimate situation and we definitely do not want anyone to know, from my point of view it is a way to protect our privacy.
I do not think that secrets are bad in their entirety, the question is in What kind of secrets do we hide? Or what kind of secrets have they confessed to us? I have read about people who keep secrets that they themselves consider harmful to their mental health, and there are other people who say that having kept some aspects of their private lives secret has saved their lives. life, I think that the moment in which a secret that you keep, whether personal or from other people, begins to bother your mind, we must seek help, we must talk about it, the best thing would be with a professional, or if we have someone we trust we could bring it up with that person.
I am one of the people who count on the fingers of their hands their true friends, what's more, I think that those I have are much less than the fingers of my hands, they are friends, brothers or sisters that life gives you, with them I have shared my secrets, and they have shared theirs with me, and definitely when you speak or let out that secret that worries you or torments you, you experience a feeling of freedom, it is very healing to talk about things that you have saved It will always be fine let off steam, and it's always nice to have secrets.
The world is full of secrets, we just have to find the balance of everything, we don't have to be an open book and we don't have to carry so many secrets and more if we have people we can really trust, let's learn to live with what we can wear.
Best wishes to everyone in this new year that begins, blessings always.
Really nice post! I have a bunch of things that I keep to myself, not because I don't want to share them, but because I literally don't have anyone to share them with, hahaha. I've learned to live with that and I've extracted great strength from it, but it hasn't been a bed of roses. Secrets can be a terrible burden, even as they can be a biggest source of power.
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Greetings @naturalmedicine There are secrets that are usually easier to tell, or it is easier for us to talk about them, but there are some that we must definitely keep them and learn to fight with them. Thanks for reading, for commenting and for your support.
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Me encanta tu post y tu frase "aprendamos a vivir con lo que podamos llevar" es verídico tenemos la posibilidad incluso de colocar limites cuando algo realmente no resuena con nuestros valores y convicciones.
saludos feliz año nuevo!
Feliz año amiga @evev , así es, nosotros somos los que ponemos los limites en nuestras vidas, un abrazo, gracias por leer y comentar.
Sure, keeping secrets may be bad for the relationship. On the other hand, you don't want to share all your secrets with everyone. That's why people close us are so special, because with them we feel safe and comfortable to share our secrets.
Greetings friend @Stortebeker, we must be careful with the secrets we keep in a relationship, and yes, it is very important and even healing to have special people we can truly trust.
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