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You obviously came on too hard with the whole moon business so she reported you for some imaginary crime to get you kicked off instead of dealing with the hassle of ghosting you. Bullet dodged my friend. Just a basic bitch who thinks reading the horoscope makes her look deep. Stick to sending unsolicited dick pics. You’ll get farther.

🤣

I wouldn’t have guessed that, though could be a possibility... 🤷‍♂️

(Actually, that’s seems more plausible than anything I can think of!)

(And no dick pics for me. Not that it’s even a possibility as I’m banned from the site anyways.)

Jajajajaja. Oh, blessed Saint Barbara! You'll have to bathe with "cariaquito morao" and entrust yourself to San Antonio, saint of the bride and groom!! to see if it takes away that bad streak you have, @rok-sivante. It seems like a matter of destiny, my friend. I'd make a sacrifice to the gods to see if they'd give you the secrets of love and passion.

I'd make a sacrifice to the gods to see if they'd give you the secrets of love and passion.

Goat? Chicken? Child? What kind of sacrifice we talking here...? 😈

astrological-literacy being one of my non-negotiable requirements
Ooof, a tall order. Even I don't read astrological charts for breakfast, though, stereotypically, I should.. I'm just the kind of spiritual rebel-snob - not even the planets get to control me.

(And there, part of me wonders if I somehow quantumly-manifested this unfathomable event through short-circuiting reality via such neuroses.)
Could be, actually..

..reported me to get my account shut down while silently stalking me on other social media [..] to reconnect and seduce my ass while falling head-over-heels for my music & writing.
That is the cutest confession I've read in a long while. ^^
That is one lovely parralell reality in which that is in fact the case.

Better luck next time!


Hugs&Coffee,
~Josie~

I was listening to Peace Dealer mentioning how sometimes the dark will hijack things when coming closer into the light...

Contemplating that dynamic as another possible parallel reality - where it actually woulda been a great connection, but dark forces cockblocked...

Didn’t give up entirely and seeing it can have any movement with Tinder - so shall see if can get back on and Madgoat wasn’t right that it was her that reported me instead of ghosting me cuz she wasn’t up to my level. Lol.

No expectations...

xD
You know "dark forces" are still just you, right?
Just checking. :D

hugs

sounds great in theory.

though I'm still wrestling to make sense of how that pertains to the Satanic pedophile Cabal and tyrannical running their massive psy-op on the world right now and pushing to inject 7 billion people with experimental genetic-manipulation technologies that have made 80% of test participants sick in spite of all evidence its reckless and irrational.

Whatever dark part of myself may be manifesting that, I truly hope to kill in my next round of ceremonies...

..I know. That deviation is particularly problematic to reconcile. And yet, all is One.
I'm struggling with that item on the shadow reconciliation agenda for quite a while now as well.

Well.. kill.. is not going to work.. though. :D
As much as it pains me to say this - and I know I only ever have only one line, ever, but - this TOO needs more love, not less!

I just don't know how to check out of the duality SO much that I am able to find some love for THAT.

..eeeh.. a process, I guess.

hugs

And thanks for the reminder that I have a backlog of shadow-work.. xD

I do question though:

To what degree may we have been mindfucked into falsely taking the whole “everything is a projection and thus all darkness within me” idea too far and been deluded into traps of “shadow” work to keep us locked in taking on weight that’s not actually ours to bear?

Meanwhile, there are actually incomprehensible degrees of atrocious madness, corruption, and utter stupidity that is not at all our own shadows...?

Oh, holy cow! When you showed it to me before I thought it was just her that had blocked you. I didn't realize you had been totally kicked of the platform all-together. That is nuts! Maybe it wasn't even related to your interaction with her. Kind of hard to find that out unless you go the whole stalker route with her... Maybe she found your birthday post on Hive and realized you might be a little too wild for her :)

The only thing I could possibly see it being related to is that I had another match with a lady here in Fernie whose profile was something like, “stimulate my brain...” and I’d sent her a message joking that’s I had a metaphorical pharmacy stocked full of red pills, asking what kind of trip she was looking for...

Logically, it might have been possible that Tinder has some AI bots screening messages that interpreted that as having to do with drug dealing.

Otherwise, no fucking clue.

Pretty sure it had nothing directly to do with the cool match. I wouldn’t have suspected she’d have gone stalking me elsewhere - or even if did and was freaked out, she probably woulda just ‘unmatched’ me rather than reporting for some non-existen violation. (Unless Madgoat is right with his assumption/joke... a possibility that actually might make more sense than anything I could think of... 👆)

I’m kinda over it by now. Still choked with the timing, though at least am forcibly done with that crap place/app... 🤷‍♂️

(And I actually did do a quick search to see if I could find her on Facebook, figuring she had a rare name so could possibly find and attempt picking up the chat... though turns out the name wasn’t that rare after all. Seems one of those generational trends - I’d never heard it before, but there are a ton of 16-22 year olds with that name... so that was a no-go.)

Ah, that is a bummer. There are ways to find people, but it sounds like you are more than okay just letting this one go and preparing yourself for the next/right chance.

I guess they have to be careful about liability, but it still seems a bit knee jerk of them.

On to bigger and better things I guess!

Unless Tinder staff will actually help me sort this out and get back online...

Apparently they’re not doing ban appeals, though I did open a ticket anyway and wasn’t left totally hanging...

So, we’ll see... 🤷‍♂️

If you could truly find out the "why" that might at least give you some peace about the whole thing. Even if they never let you use the platform again. At least you would know.

Agreed.

Customer support had asked for a screenshot of the ban message, so hoping that I’ll at least be able to get some clarity on what specific term I violated if nothing else...