well, it wasn't exactly the most uplifting post, so the comment fits appropriately. lol.
and it is appreciated.
I heard once that it takes twice as long as a relationship lasted to fully "get over it." By that math, at 36 now and it having lasted 7 years... I may be good to go for another by the time I hit 50.
That sounds kinda horribly depressing yet perfectly reasonable at the same time. Though of course, whoever said that coulda just been trying to pass off their own theory as truth for everyone, which surely isn't valid for everyone...
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Purely from my own perspective... there is no getting over it. There is no 'it'....the process itself changes the person forever.
Accepting the new person that you have become is the trick.
(....which I think, only time can achieve).
'The old you' doesn't exist anymore. (looking back, that's how I can frame it relative to myself)
....And that's a fucker.(in my experience).
yep. that sums it up pretty well.