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Have you ever been faced with a situation that completely overturned your plans, forcing you to adapt and rethink your approach? I certainly have, and it's happening more and more frequently these days.
It's an incredibly uncomfortable situation, so I took some time for a bit of introspection. I've come to the conclusion that these situations can be less painful if we manage to develop one key skill: flexibility.
And what better way to illustrate my point than van life? For those who aren't following me yet or haven't read my previous articles, I've been living in a converted van for nearly two years now. You probably know this lifestyle as vanlife.
You might even have stumbled upon photos of vans parked in stunning landscapes on social media, thinking to yourself that it seems really cool.
Well, you're not wrong, it is really cool... but only if you manage to develop your flexibility! Otherwise, it's a real nightmare 👿
In this article, I want to tell you how van life has helped me develop what I believe to be one of the most important skills in this mode of living: flexibility.
First Challenges: Mechanical Issues and Financial Constraints
The journey into van life, as idyllic as it appears, started with a harsh dose of reality for me. My very first van, a symbol of freedom and adventure, quickly turned into a source of stress and financial strain. Just days after making the purchase, it became apparent that the van was plagued with mechanical issues:
- Sputtering Engine: The van's engine was unreliable, making even short trips a gamble.
- Unpredictable Electrical System: The lights and indicators would flicker on and off, adding a layer of uncertainty to every drive.
This was more than just a setback; it was a financial crisis. Having invested almost all of my savings into buying the van, I was left with a vehicle that was barely roadworthy and a bank account that echoed emptiness.
The dream of hitting the road immediately, exploring new horizons, had to be put on hold.
I realized that the only way forward was to work and save up enough money to fix the van.
This meant dedicating another six months to jobs that I hadn’t planned on doing, jobs that were a far cry from the freedom I envisioned with van life. Every day of work was a reminder of the delay, but also a step closer to making the van life a reality.
These initial challenges taught me my first lessons in flexibility. I had to adapt not only my plans but also my mindset. Instead of seeing this delay as a defeat, I began to view it as a necessary phase of preparation, a test of my commitment to this lifestyle. It was a time of learning:
- About Vans: Understanding the mechanics and maintenance required.
- About Budgeting: Managing finances to save for repairs.
- About Resilience: Turning challenges into stepping stones.
Through this period, the art of being adaptable became not just a concept, but a lived reality.
Adapting Plans and Learning Flexibility
The dream of immediate travel was dashed, replaced by a new reality where adaptation was key. The van's persistent issues meant that my entire plan had to undergo a drastic transformation.
Change of Timeline: Instead of exploring the open roads, I found myself scouring for additional work opportunities. My days were no longer about adventure; they were about clocking in extra hours and saving every euro.
Mechanic Hunt: Finding a mechanic skilled enough to handle an older, unique van model was another hurdle. I encountered:
- Refusals: Many mechanics were reluctant to work on an older vehicle.
- Cost Concerns: Quotes for repairs were often beyond my strained budget.
- Trust Issues: Ensuring the mechanic was trustworthy and wouldn't exploit my situation was crucial.
This entire ordeal was a profound lesson in flexibility. I learned to:
- Embrace the Unexpected: Each new challenge forced me to pivot and find alternative solutions.
- Stay Patient: The waiting period, though frustrating, taught me the value of patience in the face of adversity.
- Remain Optimistic: Maintaining a positive outlook was essential to keep pushing forward despite the setbacks.
In hindsight, these obstacles were not just barriers but opportunities for growth. They pushed me to develop a level of flexibility that became invaluable, not just in dealing with van life challenges but in all aspects of life. This period of adaptation didn't just prepare me for the road; it prepared me for life's unpredictable nature.
Juggling Professional Obligations with Van Life
Balancing my freelance digital work with the daily demands of van life was like walking a tightrope, constantly trying to maintain equilibrium between two very different worlds.
The Digital Nomad's Dilemma: My work, though flexible, came with its own set of deadlines and client expectations. I faced challenges like:
- Unstable Internet Connections: Finding reliable Wi-Fi was a never-ending quest.
- Power Limitations: Relying on solar panels for electricity meant always being mindful of power usage, especially on cloudy days.
Van Life Realities: On the other hand, the daily upkeep of van life demanded its share of attention:
- Finding Safe Parking Spots: A task that often took longer than anticipated.
- Routine Maintenance: Regular checks and fixes to keep the van in a roadworthy condition.
Developing Flexibility became my secret weapon in managing these dual responsibilities. It involved:
- Prioritizing and Planning: Allocating specific times for work and van-related tasks, being ready to adjust as needed.
- Setting Realistic Goals: Understanding my limits and setting achievable targets for both work and travel.
- Embracing a Fluid Routine: Accepting that each day might look different and being okay with that fluidity.
This dance of responsibilities sharpened my ability to adapt quickly and effectively. Whether it was finding a last-minute spot to park and work or reshuffling my schedule due to unforeseen van issues, flexibility didn't just help me cope; it helped me thrive.
It turned the complex juggling act of professional obligations and van life into an enriching experience, teaching me invaluable lessons about balancing diverse aspects of life.
Managing Expectations: A Key to Flexibility
One of the most transformative aspects of my van life journey has been learning to manage, and often, let go of fixed expectations. It's about embracing a more fluid approach to life.
The Illusion of Perfect Plans: Initially, I was drawn to the idea of replicating those breathtaking Instagram spots in real life. I soon realized that clinging to these fixed images only led to:
- Disappointment: When reality didn't match the perfectly curated photos.
- Missed Opportunities: Overlooking unexpected, yet beautiful experiences because they weren't part of the plan.
Shifting from Goals to Tasks: To navigate this, I shifted my focus:
- From Fixed Goals to Flexible Tasks: Instead of fixating on reaching a specific destination, I concentrated on what needed to be done next - whether it was finding a place to park for the night or scheduling time for client work.
- Adapting to the Day-to-Day: Each day in van life can bring unforeseen challenges; focusing on immediate tasks allowed me to adapt more easily.
This Approach to Flexibility involved:
- Letting Go of Rigid Plans: Embracing the unpredictable nature of van life meant accepting that plans could change at a moment's notice.
- Being Present: By focusing on the task at hand, I became more in tune with the present moment, reducing stress and increasing enjoyment.
- Valuing the Journey: Understanding that the true essence of van life (and life in general) is found in the journey, not just the destination.
Through this process, I learned that flexibility is as much about managing expectations as it is about adapting to change. It's a mindset that has not only made van life more enjoyable but has also provided a valuable perspective in all areas of life.
Letting go of rigid expectations and focusing on adaptable tasks has been a key to unlocking a more fulfilling, less stressful way of living.
Temporary Return to Sedentary Life: A New Kind of Adaptation
Currently, I find myself in an unexpected chapter of my journey: a temporary return to a sedentary lifestyle, living with my parents while awaiting my van's technical inspection. This shift has been both challenging and enlightening.
A Sudden Shift in Routine: Transitioning from the ever-moving van life to the static nature of a household involved:
- Adjusting to a Fixed Environment: Shifting from the changing scenery of van life to the same four walls every day.
- Realigning with Family Rhythms: Syncing my daily routine with that of my parents, which often differs significantly from my usual van life schedule.
Embracing the Pause: This temporary pause in my nomadic lifestyle has offered unique opportunities:
- Reflection and Planning: Utilizing this time to reflect on my van life experiences and plan future adventures.
- Reconnecting with Family: Spending quality time with my parents, something that’s rare in my usual nomadic existence.
The Art of Adaptation in this situation involves:
- Flexibility in Daily Life: Adjusting to a different daily rhythm and finding ways to integrate my routines with those of my family.
- Maintaining a Nomadic Mindset: Keeping the spirit of van life alive by planning future travels and staying connected with the van life community.
- Learning from Stillness: Using this time to appreciate the benefits of stillness and stability, aspects that are less prominent in constant travel.
This period is teaching me that adaptability is not just about physical movement; it's also about mental and emotional flexibility.
Living temporarily in a sedentary setup is enhancing my ability to adapt to different lifestyles, proving that the journey of flexibility continues, even when the wheels stop rolling.
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Looking Forward: New Plans and Continued Adaptation
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As I look to the future, my journey is brimming with new plans and the continued need for adaptation. The road ahead is as exciting as it is uncertain.
Van's Technical Inspection: The immediate focus is on the van's upcoming technical inspection. This involves:
- Preparation and Hope: Ensuring the van is in top condition to pass the inspection and getting ready to reassemble the setup once it's cleared.
- Anticipation: The mixture of excitement and nervousness about the inspection outcome and the readiness to respond to whatever results come our way.
The Dream of New Land: Perhaps the most significant upcoming change is the impending purchase of new land. This step represents:
- A Shift in Lifestyle: Balancing the freedom of van life with the stability of having a piece of land to call our own.
- New Responsibilities and Opportunities: Preparing for the challenges and possibilities that come with land ownership.
Reflecting on Continual Adaptation, I realize that:
- Change is the Only Constant: My journey in van life has been a testament to the constant need for adaptation, be it mechanical challenges, professional obligations, or lifestyle changes.
- Growth Through Flexibility: Each new phase of my journey has demanded a different kind of flexibility, teaching me invaluable lessons about life, resilience, and the beauty of change.
- Embracing the Unknown: Looking forward, I’m excited to embrace the unknown, confident in my ability to adapt and thrive in whatever situation comes next.
As I stand at this crossroad, ready to reassemble my van and venture into the new chapter of land ownership, I am reminded that life is an endless journey of adaptation. My experiences have taught me that being adaptable is not just about surviving; it's about thriving in the perpetual flow of life's ever-changing circumstances.
Conclusion
Throughout my van life journey, the concept of flexibility has been more than just a buzzword; it's been the very essence of my day-to-day existence.
From the initial mechanical and financial hurdles to the ongoing challenge of balancing professional obligations with the unpredictability of the road, flexibility has been key.
It's about embracing the unexpected, whether it's a temporary return to a sedentary life or preparing for the exciting yet daunting task of land ownership.
For those who find flexibility a challenge, my advice is simple yet profound:
- Observe How You Function: Take time to understand your reactions to changes and disruptions. Self-awareness is the first step to becoming more adaptable.
- Draw Inspiration, Not Imitation: Learn from others, but remember that your journey is unique. What works for one person may not work for you.
- Find Your Own Rhythm: Flexibility isn't about constantly being on the move; it's about finding a flow that suits your lifestyle, values, and goals.
Remember, flexibility is not about bending until you break; it's about learning to dance with the winds of change.
It's up to you 😊
I’d love to hear from you, the Hive community!
Share your own experiences and strategies for adapting to life's unexpected changes.
How have you navigated the twists and turns of your journey? What lessons have you learned about being flexible in both your adventures and everyday life?
Your stories are as unique as they are inspiring, and I can't wait to read them.
Interesting post, though long but I do enjoy it. I was silently and slowly following those lessons you have learnt living in a van for so long. I could imagine how flexible it was to manage your life in such a way. Truly, great lessons to learn from this life of yours and how adventurous it comes by too. Life is all about learning no matter what we do or where we are.
Life comes with its challenges, balancing things will pave way for us. Flexibility will lead way to other aspect of life and we will surely see how enjoyable it is; the fun, the ride, the troubles etc are what makes it more interesting.
Thanks for sharing this.
#dreemerforlife
Hey there! Thank you so much for taking the time to read through my post and for your thoughtful comment. I'm really glad to hear that you enjoyed it, despite its length. It's true, living in a van has taught me many valuable lessons about life, flexibility, and adventure.
Your insights about life being a continuous learning journey resonate deeply with me. Whether we're in a stationary home or on the road, every experience brings its own set of challenges and joys. Balancing these elements is indeed key to enjoying life's ride, with all its ups and downs.
Thank you again for being a part of this journey and for your support.
I am glad I was directed to your post, giving me an insights on someone's experience living in a van and learning lots of lessons. You are welcome.
When I started reading I could imagine the joy of having everything you want in one place even though you leave a particular spot just because everything is in your van. Unlike the rest of us who have to leave the things, we would need in our brick-and-mortar houses and always hurry back if it's very important. Having a vanlife sounds cool.
But... A pause... I am so sorry the moment you taught your freedom has been enacted, everything started going wrong. I don't know but it seems it's part of the cycle in the world. Once you think, oh I have arrived, let me rest and enjoy, emergencies will shoot up from nowhere causing you to look for plan Bs and make certain adjustments.
I see this is what happened to you. Although I am sorry I am happy it helped you learn more life skills like the ones you mentioned. You learn to adapt to situations and become flexible.
Oh, you went home? I am sorry again.
Don't worry, you have your whole life ahead of you. Surely, you will have your vanlife back 💫💫💫
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Haha, I totally agree with you! As soon as life thinks it's getting too easy for me, it throws me into new problems!
But I think it's the same for everyone. So, I'm not worried. It's all part of the game, and I actually really enjoy it!
And yes, I should be resuming my van life soon. I'm just waiting for the holiday season to pass so I can spend some time with my family before seeing them less. That's also very important 😜
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Well, it completely describes my vanlife experience from the last 2,5 years 😅
Freedom and paradise is what you see mostly online. Vanlife costed me a fortune, a first van that is still the first, and visited dozens of garages all over Europe. Failed repairs, wrong diagnoses and so on. Spending way too much time at the end of the day to find a spot where you can stay. In all these years I've been only requested to move somewhere else, just once. You need to be flexible, patient and able to reflect and see the positive in every experience. Working remote when you need a stable connection and enough power from solar, just another fun daily challenge. And not having an own home anymore...result couch surfing at your family.
Good to have more vanlifers here on Hive :)
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ok - now i want to leave a comment on the actual CONTENT of the post! hehehe since the other comment was more about advice and help! and dreemport stuff hahaha
but the "perfect plan" problem.. ohhhhhh. yes.
I am such a huge proponent of 'DO NOT WAIT FOR THE PERFECT PLAN - THERE IS NONE!'
hahah once we just get going with A plan... not THE plan... then we can adjust it to the better plan each day
Because after all - isn't life all about following a life-long plan? so since life changes - the plan must as well!
and i love that you're also looking for "the land"
oh man. since i was 11 - i had a vision of "the land" that I wanted. I even got my kids and some dreemers to get bitten by this bug too heheh
as you read from my latest post... its a vision in the making. we aren't ready to purchase yet - but every day i can taste it a little bit more! hehe
i love so much of what you said in this post!!! (as you know from my previous comment) but i'll just stop this comment here and go read more from you! :)
Your thoughts on the "perfect plan" really hit home. When I embarked on my nomadic adventure, I had just finished my studies. Instead of seeking a conventional job, I wanted to carve out my own path, so I became a freelancer.
At the same time, I bought my first converted van with savings I had accumulated over the years, including pocket money and birthday gifts from my grandparents. Thankfully, I've never been a big spender, so I had a decent amount set aside.
I used almost all of these savings to buy a used converted van. However, things didn't go as planned. I faced numerous mechanical issues with the van, and with my limited knowledge in mechanics, it turned out to be quite costly.
Simultaneously, being a new freelancer meant that my monthly income was unpredictable, ranging from 0 to 500 euros (which is roughly the same in dollars).
So, my transition took much longer than expected. This experience taught me that indeed, the "perfect plan" doesn't exist. It's good to have a direction, but life ultimately shapes the path we take.
As for your dream of finding the "ideal land", I truly hope you find your little piece of paradise!
In some ways - the way you started out reminded me of how we started out as a family
we moved to California - kind of quickly! hahaha long story there - but we had the opportunity and we ran with it. no job - just moving with my parents - deciding to all live together for a year until we got our feet under us and see what happened!
that's a tale for another time... but the reality of California living was a culture shock. The house we all rented for the first year was worth 650,000 when we first moved there. The housing market SKYROCKETED and that same house at the end of our rental year was worth 1.2 million.,
so the prospect of us buying really changed.
and you'd think that well... what the heck are you thinking dreem? of course you'll need 2 incomes and send your kids to school and all that.
but we chose to have me stay at home, homeschool, and live on one income. and remember - we started all over again - so it wasn't like hubby had this great career hahaha
but you know the thing is... people can OFTEN make these choices. and just rearrange their lives and make it work.
but fear stops a lot of people. I'm not saying that i'm so brave hahaha fear stops me from doing things today too.... but... i'm saying - if you just decide to do it! you're usually SO shocked that things CAN work out.
and yes - you have the pitfalls (like your van and your limited mechanic skills - and lots and lots of pitfalls along our journey too)
but that's how you learn! hahaha you get kicked out the nest and better hope those wings can hold you! hhaha and they often do!
that's kinda what my latest post was about. Like you with your limited van knowledge - i feel the same about my knowledge of repairs and building. and hubby is a chef - so his knowledge was not really the typical man's man knowledge in that area either. hahaha but now - we are forced to either TRY on our own to learn these things in practice, OR... always be in a position to hire repairmen.
maybe it will end up being a little of both hahaha but - the point is... if we hold ourselves back by always saying " well i don't know this/that" then we never will learn this/that.
so - i like people like us! hhaha that are at least willing to step out. and we each step out into different things! the landing spot doesn't matter. the leap is what connects us!
The skyrocketing real estate prices you experienced are staggering! It shows how even the best-laid plans can be upended by external factors. Your decision to live on a single income and homeschool is truly brave and admirable.
And you're right, it's this willingness to take the leap, regardless of where we land, that connects us. Thank you for sharing your story. It gives me even more confidence to continue exploring and learning on my own path!
You wrote a lot in your van life and the flexibility one has to have to live there, I can it imagine , but I think the adventure part is the fun of it, it's really can be overwhelming when we cannot be in the same we were an do think that was why you has challenges when you stayed at your parents.
All things in life is balance that's what I think and by that you are good to go
#dreemerforlife
Yes, that's exactly it! When I'm at my parents' place, there's this little "spicy" thing missing. I feel like I'm not at all in my place.
It's fine for a week or a few days. But not more than that. After that, it's really exhausting!
i get what you mean, because it's not like your own haven so it feels suffocating
Wait a minute,do you mean to tell me that you can live inside a van or that you're living inside a van,
I don't really understand
#dreemerforlife
Yes, maybe I wasn't very clear. But @dreemsteem did a great job summarizing the situation 🙏
hehehe yes he is living inside his van and traveling around!!! completely a nomad!
right now he is at his parents house while his van is getting fixed - but soon he will be back living the nomad life again! hehehe
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I enjoyed reading the post so much I frankly got distracted by how long it is. Lots of lessons to learn and completely relatable. Where others might see a long post, I see a truly rich one, you don't see many of those these days. That being said, I suggest you try to keep it shorter or release in batches going forward. Not for someone like me though, I enjoyed every single bit of your write up.
#dreemerforlife
Thank you so much for your feedback! Yes, I've received quite a few messages saying that my post might have been a bit too long. I'll take note and next time I'll make it shorter, ensuring that one lesson equals one article 👍
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Life is a teacher, I used to tell my siblings that the most important things in life are not learnt from school, they come from personal experiences.
One of my uncles once told me that if you can maintain a car, or a bike you are also capable of keeping a family, it takes so much to maintain a van. It demands are just too much.
One thing I am happy about is the fact that your tough experience with your van is building you up to become a better person. That's how life should be, bad experiences are not supposed to break us but to make us.
#dreemerforlife
Thank you for sharing such a profound perspective. I completely agree with you – life indeed is the greatest teacher, and the most valuable lessons often come from personal experiences, not just from what we learn in school.
Your uncle's analogy about maintaining a car or bike and its relation to keeping a family is fascinating. It's true that maintaining a van, or any vehicle for that matter, demands a lot of attention, patience, and responsibility – qualities that are essential in many other aspects of life, including family.
Your words about tough experiences are especially encouraging. It's comforting and motivating to know that challenges, like the ones I've faced with my van, are not just obstacles but opportunities for growth. They help build resilience, adaptability, and a deeper understanding of life.
Thanks again for your insightful comment. Here's to embracing life's lessons and growing through all experiences!
All thanks to you for sharing that wonderful post with us. See you around mate🥰
Wow... This is a long one. Indeed life throws shades at us in different aspects of life. You've shown strength and learned lessons. I'm learning my own lessons right now as I hope to prevail
#dreemerforlife
Thank you for taking the time to read my lengthy post. It's true, life has a way of presenting us with challenges in various forms. It's heartening to hear that you're finding strength and learning in your own journey as well.
I wish you the best as you navigate your own lessons and experiences. Keep the hope and determination strong, and you'll definitely prevail. If there's anything my journey has taught me, it's that perseverance and a willingness to learn can take you a long way.
I can agree with you that having a van or living in a van is a symbol of freedom, you have your freedom to explore and can also rest in the van.
Just as a van might require maintenance even a house does.. although you need trusted mechanic to help the van.
They will always be things that we don’t plan for, but we still need to be prepared of anything that might happen.
A true life of a nomad.
#dreemerforlife
Absolutely, living in a van really does symbolize freedom in many ways. The ability to explore at will and have a place to rest wherever you may be is a unique and liberating experience.
Your point about the unexpected is spot on. Life, particularly nomadic life, is full of surprises. Some are pleasant, others not so much. Being prepared for anything is a crucial part of this lifestyle. It teaches resilience, adaptability, and problem-solving, skills that are valuable in any walk of life.
The nomadic life indeed is a journey full of twists and turns. It's a path that teaches us about life, ourselves, and the importance of flexibility and preparedness. Thanks for highlighting these aspects and for your insightful comment.
Wow, this post is really good and interesting as well.
Though long, but I really enjoyed reading through as I got to learn many things.
Your bond with this van is quite an interesting one too.
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Thank you so much for your kind words and for taking the time to read through my long post. I'm really glad to hear that you found it interesting and that it offered you some new insights.
The bond I have with my van is indeed a special one. It's more than just a vehicle; it's a home, a companion on the road, and a constant part of my adventures.
I was following every lesson you learnt step by step and at a point I got carried away like I was there with you. This is a great piece and I am so happy you are sharing this with us. Thank you.
#dreemerforlife
I'm truly touched by your response. It's so rewarding to hear that my story resonated with you to the point where you felt like you were right there with me. That's the beauty of sharing our experiences – they have the power to transport us and connect us, no matter where we are.
Your words of encouragement mean a lot to me. They motivate me to keep writing and sharing. Thank you for being a part of my journey and for taking the time to engage with my story!
Wow!
What an interesting read!
I know the Frustration that comes with an aging automobile, it gets 'demonic' sometimes. LoL 😂.
It's so good you were able to improvise, with wisdom for a shelter out it.
Weldon.
The article is too long though 😢
Thanks!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Yeah, dealing with an old vehicle's quirks can indeed feel 'demonic'! 😂
Appreciate your kind words about my improvisation and resourcefulness.
Acknowledged on the article's length – will aim for brevity next time!
Hey there! Your van life journey is incredibly captivating! 🚐 Your ability to find positivity in the face of challenges is truly inspiring. I love how you've turned setbacks into opportunities for personal growth. Balancing freelance work with van life is no small feat, and your resilience shines through.
The way you share the lessons about managing expectations and adapting to life's twists is so relatable. It's clear you've embraced the essence of flexibility. The temporary return to a sedentary lifestyle and your reflections on appreciating stillness add such depth to your story.
#dreemer #dreemerforlife
Thank you so much for your encouraging words! It's heartening to hear that you find my van life journey captivating 🚐
Turning setbacks into growth opportunities is something I've learned along the way. Balancing freelance work and van life indeed presents its unique challenges, but it's these very challenges that have strengthened my resilience.
Your feedback is incredibly motivating and reminds me why I love sharing my journey. Thank you for being part of it and for your thoughtful reflection on my story.
The van life sounds so fun. If I had that, I'd kiss goodbye to rents but there's a catch...like you said, there's mechanical and van maintenance.
In order to achieve balance, both adaptability and flexibility are need simultaneously.
Your lessons were quite good and I admire your courage and resilience.
#dreemerforlife
Thank you so much for your comment! I think that in any case, living in a van is less expensive than having to pay rent. Especially if you know a bit about mechanics (the simple things).
Thanks once again for your comment!
I've always been really amazed by those who live a lot on the road or in their vehicles, navigating through roads and life in general. I do know that it's impossible not to pick up a few traits and core values that would shape the way you respond to life in general.
And in your case, it's flexibility. You learn to adapt, you learn to see life and people in a whole new way. You're learning on the road so you become more observant, more tolerant. It's a whole new world so I applaud you for embracing it. Both good sides and bad. All the best.🌺
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The van life has been a lot of lesson on your end. Sometimes the event that happens in our life helps us develop certain traits, like the flexibility in your case. The new development of a van indeed came with a lot of ways for adaptation and change
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Aah this, my friend. This is what it is all about! What a fantastic post, Gabriel! I could read you for hours on end. Your life on the road is a pilgrimage - a journey to nowhere specifically, but an important journey nevertheless. It's all about experiencing life in the moment. Love that! And that sweet balance between a fixed home base and the flexibility of a life on wheels sounds very alluring. I am one of those dreemers seeking out new horizons for my family's future. Keeping the options open but working to create space for the dreem to breathe and evolve.
I came across your post featured on Dreemport this evening. Hope to see you sharing more of your writing with the community here.
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Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled that you resonate with the essence of the van life journey.
Your pursuit of new horizons and the dream of a flexible and evolving future for your family is inspiring. It's all about keeping that dream alive and taking the steps to make it a reality. I'm grateful for the opportunity to share my experiences, and I look forward to sharing more with the community here 🚐🌟
A van life??? Wow, that's a good life in its own way, and some may even view it magical.
Buying a new van, no money for repair. It all happened at once! Pussijg your dreams and make you see the need for flexibility, and you adhered to it.
You matter, and because of that, you changed. You understood what was happening, and you saw new light where it seemed pitch dark.
You embraced a new journey, learned, moved, and never stopped learning.
You are doing well.
Hello dearest fashionable dreemer. It is another brighter day. I hope you are ready to start the day. And when you do, don't forget to go with a smile. Let the world feel the power of your happiness! I waltzed in from #dreemport, for I am an amazing #dreemer. An awesomely made #dreemerforlife.
Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. It's true, van life does have its own kind of magic, a unique blend of freedom and simplicity. But you're right, it's not always easy. Words can paint a rosy picture, but the reality is often different. Just like everyone, I have those moments when everything piles up – the van breaking down, financial constraints, the pressure of pursuing dreams – and it can be overwhelming.
Sometimes, before I can find perspective, I just need to let out a good scream! 😂
You are welcome 😊. The magic is real even without a magic wand 😅. And I am glad you got to survive despite it all. It's an inspiration to live by.
Haha... the right amount dosage of it keeps your blood pumping, then calm and... Hehe.. the inspiration comes in.
Hey there!
What an insightful article on the art of flexibility in van life! Your journey reflects the true essence of adaptability – from overcoming mechanical challenges to balancing professional obligations. It's refreshing to see how you've turned setbacks into opportunities for growth, embodying the spirit of flexibility. Looking forward to more chapters of your van life adventure!
Cheers.
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I'm thrilled to know that my experiences resonate with you. Sharing these moments – the good, the challenging, and everything in between – is what makes this journey even more rewarding. I'm excited to continue sharing my van life adventures and the lessons learned along the way.
Stay tuned for more stories from the road!
Cheers! 🚐✨🌍
I definitely will.
Have a fantastic day 🌼
You too 🥰
Wow @genesisledger! This was a long interesting read.
I love your mindset and that has made you embrace challenges seeing them as stepping stones, adapting to life and juggling your van life with your career and all that life throws at you, that's outstanding. With this mindset, you will be able to overcome any challenge you're faced with.
Flexibility and adaptability are skills we need to have in order to embrace the unexpected circumstances of life and find a flow to the situation.
Personally, I am most times excited about the unknown and embrace whatever situation I find myself, this moves me to adapt to the situation, find immediate solution, keep moving forward and withstanding the winds of life.
Thanks for sharing your beautiful experience of shifts in life with us. We surely have a lot to learn from you.
Cheers 🥂 and welcome to Hive 🎉🎉
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Thank you so much for your kind words and warm welcome to Hive! It truly means a lot to me.
Living life on the road in a van with my partner has indeed been a lesson in flexibility and adaptability. Every day brings its own set of challenges, but also its unique joys and discoveries. The journey hasn't always been easy, but it has been incredibly rewarding. Sharing my experiences and learning from others in the Hive community is something I cherish.
I'm sorry it took me time to reply you.
That is life and you get stronger at every stage in life. That's true you experienced it with your wife, wow! The days ahead are brighter and better. Well done @genesisledger
There's so much lesson in this post, how a person lived in a van and has a lot of lesson to share. It was quite a long read though but very enjoyable.
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Heyyyyy! Thank you for your comment!
Yes, I'm sorry. My post might have been a bit too long. In the future, I will divide my thoughts into several posts. Anyway, thank you so much for your feedback!
Wow! This was a very interesting read. Life sometimes throw things our way and it's left for us to be flexible and adapt.
I must say I enjoyed reading your post, there are lots of lessons to be learned in there.
Thank you for sharing. Came in from Dreemport
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And in hindsight, I'm very happy that these struggles happened to me. And even though I'm not eager, I want to face new challenges because I've never grown as much as when I faced difficulties!
In the moment, it's very, very tough. But afterwards, it provides a lot to talk about and also helps to improve self-confidence.
Thank you for your kind comment.
Nothing beats someone who is flexible. In life only the flexible ones survive easily and with the different analysis you gave about your vanlife and all, I think you learned flexibility the hard way but it's nice that you got through those different moments.
I really needed to read something this beautiful at this time because I'm going through quite a lot lately and I think the answer to my so many questions is being flexible.
I came across this amazing content thanks to #dreemport and your post reminds me of the challenges one could face when building their dreem space.
Hey, thank you for your very kind comment! It's probably a sign that you came across my message. After all, you could have stumbled upon any other article.
Maybe it means that you really needed to read it and that everything is going to be alright for you now. Remember that we are very small in the universe. Nothing really matters... except life and enjoying life!
It's my pleasure stopping by because bi definitely got encouraged by your words.
Wow, you wrote a lot about your van life, I took my time to read through because I was so moved by this post. #dreemerforlife
Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to read my post!
There's a lot of things that I learned through this post and the post isn't just about a van. But is about how to overcome challenges that's the way I see it.
Thanks for sharing this post sir.
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Yes, that's exactly what I wanted to convey in this post. Thank you for your comment and thank you for taking the time to read my post!
Wow, what a lengthy post but full of value. Living in the van has taught you life lessons. I can say that it's even an adventure for you on its own as you learnt deeper about life which is great as the journey of life entails learning from one phase to another. I understand all the ups and downs you faced but good enough you embraced a flexible life. In all things, finding balance can be of great help. Keep living with positive approaches to life. All the best 😇
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Yes, it's a long article and I promised everyone that next time, I would make long articles in several parts. Thank you for your comment and for your encouragement!
All the best to you too 😇
The lessons you learnt from the challenges you encountered living a vanlife are amazing and inspiring. And thank you for sharing them here. Flexibility and adaptability are necessary skills for navigating life easier. #dreemerforlife
Thank you for your comment! I agree with you. But it's easy to lose these skills if we don't maintain them. And it's darn easy not to maintain them, by the way! 😉
I love this article. I needed it at this exact point in my life. Flexibility is something I really lack. I just live by a rigid plan that's the same almost everyday. Go to school, get back home, eat and sleep. Rinse, wash, repeat. I usually find it difficult to incorporate activities that abruptly come up as the day goes by. I am honestly convinced that setting flexible tasks instead of goals will help me out.
That aside, I do envy your new lifestyle. The solitude and freedom is the kind I've always yearned for. Have a good one mate.
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Thank you very much for your sincere and touching comment. I completely understand what you're feeling with this rigid routine that seems to repeat day after day. It's a situation many of us find ourselves in at one point or another in our lives. I myself was there a few years ago, and I still sometimes fall back into those patterns.
In my opinion, the best way to go about it if you like to have control, is to start small. Reserve a slot in your day, even just 30 minutes, dedicated to something new or unexpected. This could be a simple walk, reading a chapter of a book, or even just sitting down to think. It's a good start to open yourself up to flexibility.
As for the desire for solitude and freedom, I totally understand 🙏