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Sometimes you get to understand the depth of people's core self not by asking them as a straight question but by allowing them to involuntarily talk about issues that generally surrounds their lives. The identities of people are embedded in their accent, their chose of food, words women & men or even distinct attitudes and that's why sometimes we get to to know people in the long run better than we get to know them in the short run. I tell you why I still remain single and this is because I'm generally predictive, I can tell the lies and truth of people simply by hearing them talk in involuntarily
By so doing, I deduce who they are, generally from what they say and in almost 95% of times I use to be right. In reality, people are hardly a representation of what they ingest, they're a representation of what they eject and that's why I don't like asking the difficult questions rather I take time to allow people reveal their core self directly from what they say. Because the truth isn't embedded in what we prepare to say, it's embedded in the things we're not prepared to say.. The truth can be harsh but then subconsciously we often let it out to our own detriment.
I generally prefer relating or getting involved in commitments with people who generally talks with their actions rather than their speeches. This is because talks can be vain and not backed by anything legitimate. But sometimes we need to look at the track record of people before we allow them to give us their word. I've come across people who makes promises a lot. I understand that sometimes people get into situations that makes it difficult for them to fulfil their promises but then if a failure to fulfil a promise is constant, this should inadvertently communicate something to you, and what's that? This communicate that people deliberately refuse to show lack of commitment simply by constantly breaking promises.
In the world we are, we live dangerously by banking on the end result of promises. AvPromise isn't a debt like it's famously written or quoted. A promise is a speech that isn't backed by certainty but tantamount to be altered by a lot of unforeseen circumstances, so people aren't a representation of their promises, they're a representation of the aftermath of their promises which can be thoroughly devastating. In essence, we must understand that everytime we make a promise and fail, an iota of trust is often broken and it takes a whole lot of right actions to even mend.
Without mincing words, life's a whole myriad of mystery but then some things are clasped in black and white. Trust is stressful to build but very easily destroyed and there's no shade of colours to this. As people in general it's imperative that people judges us based on our words because it means our words can translate to tenable actions and when one's words represents their honour then you can tell that it's taken years to build and maintaining this honour means a person must have had so many years of effective track record of living by what they say and fulfilling them a maximum percentage.
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I think we share character on this. But been single because you could understand people from their spoken words got me laughing. I see that as being over sensitive. You're right though, words tell more of an individual
Nice write up